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Judge Not, Lest Ye Be Judged. Coming Clean.


Oftentimes in life, I wonder if any information I’ve revealed about myself can come back to haunt me. Ya know, in that Herman Cain/Bill Clinton sort of way???
Probably not.
But- maybe what I am about to say can invoke some serious feelings of disgust or some other nasty emotion. I don’t know, but I figure since this blog is all about me, I should feel free to lay it all out there on the table.
So, I would like to come clean about my relationship (s).
Yes- (s) <—– don’t let that get past ya.
I have been dating a guy for the past two years. Since July 2009. However, I’ve been married to another guy since 2004. (Insert Evil music Here)
Before you get ready to spit, knash your teeth, foam at the mouth, have a seizure do whatever you do when you hear something like that, just know I’ve been ready to sign those papers for years! My ex just refuses to let the relationship end on paper. Its ridiculous!

What is even more ridiculous about this whole ordeal is that we are about to enter year 2012!

Honestly, I never meant to let this marriage drag on as long as it has. When I ended things with my husband in March of 2009, he went through a series of emotions and it was horrible to see him hurting the way he was about our inevitable breakup.


What do you worry about?


Started August 14th……

I have been extremely worried about my next move. While I am cool on the outside, on the inside the Jameelionaire within is screaming INCOME AUTO PILOT HOE! I need to find a way to make the money I am destined to make. Not that I am obsessed with making money. I am obsessed with being able to live a fulfilling life the way I want to live it and being in control of my destiny.

As a parent, I don’t have many worries where my children are concerned. In 2 years my daughter will be headed to middle school and I want her to be ok with making new friends< participating in after school clubs and groups, etc. We are in the process of trying to figure out where we can live in the Virginia Highlands. Yes, it is ambitious because Virginia Highlands is one of the most expensive places to live in the Metro Atlanta area.

Okay, update. No longer interested in moving to the VH, my daughter is now at a Magnet school that I am very comfortable with.